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Bully Update

 Just to let you guys know... I found out where he lives from another kid. We went there and no one was home. But a friend did stop by to let the dogs out. I explained my situation and asked if they would let the mother know what's going on. Then today I went to the playground with my kids and waited for the bully to come around. Even better, the mom did. She was yelling at some high school boys and wouldn't talk to me. What she did say was that my son deserved it and she didn't have time for me. So at the suggestion of my mother I called the cops and an officer came out to hear what was going on. He knew exactly which house I was talking about without telling him the address. Funny huh? He tried to contact the mother and she wasn't home. He said that from what he knows of her, he probably won't get a much different response than I did. But he is going to try and get ahold of her. He said there isn't much they can do at this age. They do not press charges on playground bullying for kids under 10. He suggested I try to scare some sense in to the boy when I catch him being mean to my kids again. And if he does hurt my son again, he wants me to call the station and have a report filed so that a detective is assigned to the case to talk to the boy. 

Thank you for your suggestions and advice. 


What she did say was that my son deserved it

Deserved it?  When the f*ck does anyone deserve to be bullied?  I'd give this woman a piece of my own mind if I didn't think it might rot in her skull.

*calms down*

Sadly, I hope something does happen so a detective is assigned to the case.  Perhaps then the mom & child will be scared straight.
she said my son was throwing stuff at hers, which I heard was because her son was chasing mine so he could hit him. And her son is twice the size of mine! Apparently after the cop talked to my son we found out that this all started over playing football. My son plays pee wee tackle. So the bigger boys let him play with them cuz he knows whats up. Well My son tackled hers, weeks ago, and I guess he got a bruise on his arm. We are going on 3 weeks of "payback"! And what kid plays tackle at the playground and cries about a little bruise??